🚨 Call 911 Now — Do Not Watch and Wait
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Anyone gave rescue breaths or CPR, even briefly, even if the child “came round” straight away. A child who needed breaths needs a hospital evaluation, full stop. This card is not for that child.
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They lost consciousness, went limp, or did not respond to you at any point in or out of the water.
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Blue or grey lips, face or fingertips. In darker skin, look at the lips, gums, tongue and inner eyelids.
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They are struggling to breathe — working hard, skin sucking in between the ribs or at the base of the throat, grunting with each breath, nostrils flaring, or unable to speak a full sentence.
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They are hard to wake, confused, or not making sense, or they have a seizure, or foam or froth comes from the mouth or nose.
Why this comes first. Everything below is for a child who got out breathing, alert and pink, and whose only symptom was a bout of coughing. If any line above is true, you are past the point of watching. Call 911, and if they are not breathing normally, start CPR while you wait.
🟧 Get Them Seen Today — Call the Pediatrician or Go to the ER
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The coughing does not settle. A few coughs as they come up is the body clearing water, and it should ease off within minutes. Coughing that keeps going, keeps coming back, or gets harsher over the next hour is the single most common early sign that water reached the lungs.
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Breathing is faster than normal while they are resting, or it sounds different — wheezy, crackly, rattly, or shallow.
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They say their chest hurts, or it hurts to take a deep breath.
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Unusual tiredness. Not “worn out after a pool day” but flat, listless, not interested in food or play, or falling asleep at an odd time and hard to rouse.
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A change in behaviour — unusually irritable, clingy, confused, or “just not themselves” in a way you can put your finger on. You know your child’s baseline better than any doctor.
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Vomiting, more than once, or a fever that develops in the hours afterwards.
You will not be wasting anyone’s time. Pediatricians and emergency departments would far rather see a child who turns out to be fine than hear about one who was watched at home too long. If you are unsure which column a symptom belongs in, it belongs in this one. And if any of these is getting worse quickly, it belongs in the 911 column.
🟢 What “Probably Fine, Keep Watching” Looks Like
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A short bout of coughing that stopped within a few minutes of getting out and has not come back.
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Breathing at rest looks and sounds like it always does. Count it once while they are calm so you have a number to compare against later.
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Normal colour, normal chatter, normal appetite, and they want to get back to whatever they were doing.
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Upset or scared is not a symptom. Crying, shaking and wanting a cuddle after a fright are normal. What you are watching for is breathing, colour and alertness — not mood.
⏱️ The Watch Log — Check at Each Time, Write What You See
Time they came out of the water
Normal resting breaths per minute (count 30 sec × 2)
How to read it. You are not looking for a single bad number — you are looking for a direction. Every row the same as the first, or better: keep going. Any column drifting the wrong way from one row to the next — breathing a little faster, the cough coming back, a little flatter each check: stop logging and call the pediatrician now. Anything from the red section: 911. The log exists because “I think he’s breathing a bit fast?” is hard to judge at hour three, and easy to judge next to what you wrote at hour one.
😴 Naps, Bedtime and the Night
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A tired child after a big day is normal. A child you cannot properly wake is not. If they fall asleep during the watch window, check on them: breathing easy and even, colour normal, and they stir and respond when you rouse them.
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Before you go to bed yourself, look in once more and fill in the last row. Listen to the breathing for a full minute.
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If you are uneasy enough to be thinking about sleeping in their room, that unease is information. Call the pediatrician’s after-hours line and describe what you are seeing.
📝 What Happened — For the Doctor
Date and time
Where (pool / bath / lake / ocean / other)
Roughly how long under, or face-down
Who got them out, and how
Coughing or choking when out? How long?
Vomited? Swallowed a lot of water?
Any breaths or CPR given? (if yes → 911)
Child’s age and weight
Asthma or other breathing history
Pediatrician and after-hours number
Why write it now. Twenty minutes after a fright, nobody can agree on whether it was five seconds or thirty. The first question a clinician asks is what happened in the water and how long the coughing lasted — the answers are most accurate while the adrenaline is still fresh.
🧠 Three Things Worth Knowing Before You Need This
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“Dry drowning” and “secondary drowning” are not medical diagnoses. Doctors describe what these terms mean as drowning — a breathing problem caused by water — with symptoms that start early and progress. The practical point: you are not waiting for a mystery event days from now, you are watching for early signs that are already there.
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It is uncommon, and it is signposted. A child who got out coughing, settled within minutes, and has stayed completely normal through the watch window is very unlikely to have a problem. The children who do run into trouble almost always show it early — which is exactly what the log is designed to catch.
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The scare is a warning about supervision, not just about the lungs. Tonight is about watching. Tomorrow is about working out how a child got under water without anyone noticing sooner — and what changes so it does not happen again.
🗓️ Tomorrow — What Changes
How it happened, in one sentence
Who was watching, and what pulled their eyes away
Our Water Watcher rule from now on
Barrier or gear we are adding
When we go back in the water (calmly, soon)
Swim lesson plan & start date
Go back to the water gently, and fairly soon. Once your child is well, a calm, short, shallow-water session with you close by stops a single fright from hardening into a lasting fear. A structured lesson programme then gives them the skill a scare exposes: getting to the surface, rolling onto their back to float and breathe, and turning to find the edge.