Swim Lesson Encouragement Card

Calm words help children feel safe in the water. Keep it short, praise effort, let the instructor lead and stay close to young children.

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📋 Step 1: About My Swimmer

Child’s name and class level
Teacher’s name
One thing my child loves about swim class
One thing that feels hard right now
What helps my child calm down
This week’s small goal

🏠 Step 2: Before Class

👀 Step 3: During Class

Tip: a thumbs up from across the room says “I’m proud of you” without pulling attention from the teacher.

🔁 Step 4: Instead Of / Try Saying

Try these swaps, then write your own words in the last column.

Instead ofTry sayingMy own words
“Don’t be scared.”“It looks like the water feels big today. What feels tricky?” 
“Look how well your friend swims.”“I saw you try something new today.” 
“Be brave and go in!”“Take your time. Your teacher is right there.” 
“You were bad at kicking.”“I saw you working hard on your kicks.” 
“If you swim, you get a treat.”“We always have a snack after class, no matter what.” 
“You can’t drown now.”“You’re learning great skills, and I will always stay close.” 
“You were the best one.”“I saw you listen and try again.” 

🌟 Step 5: After Class

Children are never alone in or near water. Encouraging words do not replace adult supervision, and lessons do not make a child drown-proof, at any age. If a child is in trouble in the water, get help and call 911 or your local emergency number.

📝 Step 6: Notes and Next Steps

What my child tried this week
Words that worked
Words that did not help
Question for the teacher
Small goal for next class
Date I checked in with the teacher

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